Your wants are a part of the dance,
Your wants are flailings in the water,
Water will do what it will regardless of your feelings about it,
it will suck you down and trash you about regardless of your fear,
it is not invested in your attachment to your life, it’s movements will happen without doubt or reflection.
You are reasoning with gorillas, they’re just more noises in the air, the shaping of wind adding to the timeless chorus.
These noises are part of the dance, the attachment is a hungry cat scratching on an abandoned house.